Final Exam

15 Dec

Today I have one fewer students. Jacob has committed suicide.

He had never done well, spoke little, responded rarely and seemed, forever, to be looking darkly into a distant space. Rail thin, sullen, his long black hair would sometimes sway and uncover the circles under his eyes. He would tell me he was ravenous always, that his headaches were constant. He wrote this to me in a note.

On a bit of paper, written in short, matter-of-fact fragments, he told me his home was small, loud, had no space for him to study that did not have a TV blaring, parents yelling. He wrote me he could not see though the pain in his head, spent his time eating, eating, eating.

Grades? How was I to convince him grades were important? In the face of such pain, how could I lie and tell him, more important than his suffering, were his essay scores? While I tried to help him with his work, I had not recorded grades for him in weeks. What would a zero teach him? The value of labour? That failure brings more failure and suffering more suffering?

I shared his note with guidance, asked he be checked into, checked out, checked up on. Spoke with his teachers, his mother. That was a month ago.

Today the news was delivered to me in a note folded into my mailroom box. On a half sheet of paper, a scrawled missive said the administration had decided I was to not count zeros for the last few weeks he was in class. That his final exam would still have to be counted and recorded as a failing grade and he be given an F for the term.

And that is how we said goodbye to Jacob.


Posted by on December 15, 2006 in Culture, Education, Social, Suicide


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3 responses to “Final Exam

  1. Jennie

    December 15, 2006 at 5:46 PM

    I am so, so sorry. This has to be incredibly difficult for you and your students.The decision to record him as a failure seems bizarre to me. Isn’t there an option for “withdrawn” or “incomplete” or something else that indicates that the student is no longer enrolled? Or would that reduce the enrollment counts and cost the school money?I wish you strength and solace in the midst of all your sorrows.Jennie

  2. TapWitch

    December 16, 2006 at 5:20 AM

    No, the penultimate paragraph is FUCK.Get Adam the Hell Out of Teaching Public School. I’m donating my dollar. And 42 cents for good luck.

  3. werewulf

    December 18, 2006 at 12:15 PM

    I’m with tapwitch all the way! And I’ll match the funds.Howls,Twin


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